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I am having an angry day. Much of the weekend was spent sulking and I'm totally over sulking.
I've been rebounding since my relationship with a dude who's pretty cool. He moves to Chicago this weekend so that'll kind of put an end to everything. But I'm livid right now with him. He hung out with me on Thursday and that was cool. Friday he sort of blew me off but it was OK because we didn't really have anything set in stone. Saturday he definitely bailed on me when we DID have plans. But he waited until 7 at night to tell me. That's kind of shadey in itself. Sunday he had plans already so whatever, I wasn't planning on seeing him at all. But since he bailed on me Saturday I figured we should make plans or something for later. So he's supposed to come over tonight. I told him to make it up to me he needs to spend the night. He doesn't have a job or anything so whatever right? This he agreed to yesterday and because of that I kind of let Saturday night slide. No sense getting worked up over a non-relationship. Today he tells me that he can't stay over. He has to get ready for his move. I respect that. BUT for christ sake, I work in the morning, get up and leave when I do. You'll get home early anyway. I told him that I was unhappy but he should come over tonight. I also told him to expect a conversation about respect and friendship. We're friends and I deserve respect. That's pretty much all I want to say. I'm not asking for "girlfriend" amount of respect. I'm asking for plans to get followed through with or at least cancelled at a decent hour. I could have left town this past weekend but I didn't because I thought we were going to hang out.
Vent vent vent. Angry. I don't think he's coming over tonight. He's going to be a baby and not talk about respect and friendship.
On the plus side, I remember why I enjoyed my relationship with Paul so much. I never had to play these stupid games or worry about him bailing on me. He drove me crazy when it was all said and done but at least I believed it when he said that we'd hangout.
Am I being irrational? Cuz I sometimes I feel like I am but I would be angry with any of my friends if they did this to me. That's not irrational. Right?
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Yes, it's very rational to expect respect from others. You deserve it, and it's something nobody should ever give up.
If he disrespects you, try to talk, but if he's not willing to - walk away. You won't be able to teach him anything unless he's actually willing to learn. Some people are just this way - they don't understand why certain things are disrespectful. My ex used to always be late. I tried explaining to him that when I have to sit for an hour by the door, waiting - it's disrespectful towards me and my time. He never really got it. Just one of the reasons why he's now an ex.
Since you guys don't have any future prospects of the relationship, he might feel that he'll only be there for you when it's easy, but when you're upset, he can simply avoid it by avoiding you. If that's the case - don't waste your time, move on. I know exactly how angry and frustrated you feel - I was there many times.
26 sep. 11 por el miembro: lenakh
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no, you deserve respect and so what he's just a rebound guy plans are plans you cancel atleast 24 hrs in advance and if thats not possible atleast the morning of. Boys are stupid.
26 sep. 11 por el miembro: allieaac
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Haha Allie you're so blunt. Yes, boys are stupid. You're both right though, which is why I told him I wanted to talk about it. It's important to have respect in any relationship - romantic or otherwise. I feel so silly getting worked up over it when he's moving in less than a week but flaky people are the worse!
26 sep. 11 por el miembro: kziemianski
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well I an understand wanting to talk to him about it, OR you could totally turn into a flake and ignore him since he's moving and all.
26 sep. 11 por el miembro: allieaac
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Meh, I enjoy him as a person. I don't want to flake out. Plus his sister is one of my good friends. Don't want bad blood around. We're going to talk tonight but he's not coming out here. So... I don't know what'll happen cuz I think I've really confused him as to what he thinks that I want. I just want to be friends (with or without benefits) like we already are.
26 sep. 11 por el miembro: kziemianski
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did know you were good friends with his sister...that does make it a little more important to not flake on him lol. Hope the talk goes well....
26 sep. 11 por el miembro: allieaac
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